So I was watching Oprah the other day. I KNOW, I am SUCH a woman of leisure!
Anyway. She was interviewing Seal and Heidi Klum about having a good marriage. Seal said that he considers Heidi FIRST to be his best friend and THEN to be his wife.
He said that he does this because he would never dream of taking his best friend for granted, or hurting them, or being mean or rude to them, whereas, sometimes with our spouses we are less careful about what we say and what we do.
I thought that this was a true statement. I guess its because we are so comfortable with our spouses, or so sure of their love, we don't worry about losing it...like we might with a friend...but shouldn't we be even more careful with our spouses tender feelings...and treat them BETTER than we would anyone else?
I am guilty of not always doing that.
So, I guess I just wanted to say that I feel lucky that my best friend and my husband are the same person.
(Maybe Troy has been gone too long...mushy me.)